It is our practice to make every effort to support families before and after the funeral service. Having a private discussion about your loss with one of our experienced funeral directors can prove helpful. They can also suggest other groups or individuals who are able to offer advice and support. Below are a few abbreviated insights about loss and grief.
GRIEF IS NOT THE PROBLEM: People often use the word 'recover' when they talk about grief. But is it really appropriate to speak of recovering from grief? Grief is not the problem. Loss is the problem. Losing someone we love is painful. We want to stop hurting, and grief is the way to healing.
GRIEVING IS PERSONAL: When someone says, "I know just how you feel," they may be mistaken. Each person grieves in his or her own, unique way. There are no rigid time limits to the grieving process. It may take as long as two years or more. Trust yourself and your feelings. They are usually your best guide.
GRIEVING IS NATURAL: This is your way of learning to live with the loss you have experienced, not a sign of emotional or spiritual weakness. Grief is a normal, healthy way to deal with an unpleasant reality.
LIVING WITH LOSS: While we may recover from initial shock and denial, experts claim that we do not recover from the pain, anger, sadness and other emotions. We learn to deal with these feelings, not by eliminating them, but by integrating the loss into our lives.
OTHERS CAN HELP. YOU CAN HELP OTHERS.: The support of people who have been through similar circumstances is perhaps your best source of comfort. Also, try offering your services to help others. This will occupy your grieving time in a positive way.
CALL BEATY FUNERAL HOME: There are books and pamphlets available at the funeral home that offer insight into this subject matter. We can also tell you about support groups in the area.